The holiday season brings joy, but it can also create challenges for parents sharing custody. In Texas, the courts encourage fair arrangements that protect the child’s best interests. Understanding how holiday schedules are decided can help you prepare and reduce stress during these important times.
Standard possession order
Texas often uses a standard possession order (SPO) to guide custody arrangements. This order sets clear rules for holidays like Christmas, Thanksgiving, and spring break. Typically, parents alternate holidays each year, so one parent has Thanksgiving one year while the other has Christmas, and then they switch the next year. The SPO ensures both parents have meaningful time with their child during important occasions.
Child’s age and needs
The child’s age can play a big role in shaping the holiday schedule. For younger children, shorter visits may work better to avoid disruption in their routine. For older children, longer visits may be appropriate since they can handle extended time away from one parent. Courts look at what arrangement supports the child’s comfort and well-being during holiday breaks.
Distance between parents
How far parents live from each other can also affect holiday custody schedules. If parents live close by, exchanges may be easier and more frequent. If they live in different cities or states, longer blocks of time may be set aside so the child can travel less often. Courts consider the logistics of travel to reduce stress on the child.
Making adjustments outside of court
Parents are encouraged to agree on holiday schedules that fit their unique situation. While the SPO provides a standard plan, parents can work together to adjust dates or share celebrations if it benefits their child. Flexibility helps reduce conflict and makes holidays more enjoyable for everyone.
Holiday custody schedules can feel complicated, but the focus remains on the child’s best interests. By understanding the guidelines and staying flexible, parents can create lasting memories for their child without unnecessary disputes.
