Divorce is a difficult process, especially when children are involved. In Texas, parents must decide on child custody arrangements that best serve their children’s interests.
Understanding the options can help make the process smoother and ensure a positive outcome for everyone involved.
Sole managing conservatorship
In Texas, one parent can be awarded sole managing conservatorship. This means that the parent has the exclusive right to make major decisions about the child’s life. These decisions include education, medical care, and religious upbringing. The court usually grants sole managing conservatorship only when the other parent is unfit or there is a history of family violence or abuse.
Joint managing conservatorship
Joint managing conservatorship is the most common arrangement in Texas. In this setup, both parents share the rights and responsibilities of raising their children. Both parents have a say in major decisions, although one parent might have the final say in specific areas like education or healthcare. This arrangement works best when both parents can communicate effectively and cooperate for their child’s benefit.
Possession and access
Possession and access refer to the schedule that dictates when each parent spends time with their children. In Texas, the Standard Possession Order (SPO) outlines a typical schedule for parents who live within 100 miles of each other. This includes every other weekend, Thursday evenings, and alternating holidays. For parents living more than 100 miles apart, a different schedule may apply. Parents can also create a custom schedule that better fits their unique situation, as long as the court approves it.
Modifying custody orders
Sometimes, changes in circumstances require a modification of the custody order. Either parent can request a modification if they can show that it is in the best interest of the child. Reasons for modification include a significant change in one parent’s situation, the child’s needs, or if the current arrangement is no longer working.
Working together for the child’s best interest
The goal of any custody arrangement is to serve the best interests of the child. Parents should prioritize their child’s well-being over any personal disagreements. By understanding the available custody options and working together, parents can create a stable and supportive environment for their children during and after the divorce.
