Texas parents headed for a split are often concerned about the potential for conflict in their co-parenting relationships. While the best parenting situations are child focused and collaborative, there is hope for those who have trouble communicating with their exes. With planning and commitment, a parallel parenting arrangement can be successful and even serve as a bridge to a less acrimonious situation after passions have cooled.
For most people in Texas, the decision to end a marriage isn't an easy one. It can be an even more difficult process if children are involved. Research shows that the most effective way to ease the trauma that often goes along with divorce for children is to minimize conflict and make the transition as non-disruptive as possible. One way some parents are doing this is with a type of arrangement known as "nesting" or "birdnesting." It involves retaining the family home as parents alternate staying there with their children while still living separately.
Have you ever been in a situation where one of your friends buys something new and you start thinking that maybe you should also buy something? Maybe it is a car, something for your home or just some new clothes. Is this just case of “keeping up with the Joneses” or is there something more going on? Because when it comes to divorce, new research shows that their actions just might be contagious.
When parents in Texas go through a divorce, they may struggle with the changing relationship with their children. When both parents want to play an active, involved role in their children's lives, child support and custody issues can be contentious. In many cases, both parents feel as if they haven't received fair treatment in family court, especially if they're not fully satisfied by the outcome. Even more, both working parents may struggle with financial issues, balancing time with career and children and child support payments.
Divorce can be a difficult financial time for many people in Texas. In fact, many people stay in unhappy marriages for years because of their fears about the fiscal effects of a divorce. In some cases, the emotional and practical aspects of a divorce have long since been completed, but the financial consequences can linger on for years. However, by keeping some key tips in mind, divorcing spouses can help to protect their assets and emerge for divorce ready to meet their financial goals for the future.
Many Texans believe that if a couple lives together before marriage, they will be less likely to divorce. However, new research indicates that cohabitation may actually decrease the likelihood of long-term matrimony.